Jesus, The Satisfied
“May the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ be blessed! On account of his vast mercy, he has given us new birth. You have been born anew into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead”(1 Peter 1:3 CEB).
I remember traveling by car through the countryside of Washington State. It was the season of the Wheat harvest. As far as the eye could see there was nothing but the beautiful golden grain fields. As I drank in the beauty of the countryside with this sight before me, I realized more than my own enjoyment what satisfaction it must be for the local farmers! They had prepared the fields, planted it with seed, cultivated it and hoped for adequate rainfall. Then at last! The harvest for which they had patiently labored had appeared.
As we contemplate this Passover season, we must ask ourselves, what did our Lord Jesus’ death, burial and resurrection mean for Him? The writer to the Hebrew believers wrote, “For the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame…”(Hebrews 12:2 NIV).
What possible joy could the Lord Jesus experience while being rejected by his own, being tortured and condemned to die for a crime He never committed on a Roman cross?
Yeshua (Jesus) took joy in knowing that He had fully accomplished his Father’s will. He was not put to death by the will of man. He freely gave up His life according to the will of the Father (Acts 2:23).
DEATH WAS DEFEATED
Through death, Yeshua defeated death and snatched the grave’s victory from the devil! “Since the children have flesh and blood, he too shared in their humanity so that by his death he might break the power of him who holds the power of death—that is, the devil— and free those who all their lives were held in slavery by their fear of death”(Hebrews 2:14, 15 NIV). He not only defeated death for Himself but for you and me.
THE JOY OF HARVEST
Finally, the joy set before him was the fact he was going back to the Father but He was not going home alone! The scriptures foretold, “I will declare your name to my people; in the assembly I will praise you. You, who fear the Lord, praise him! All you descendants of Jacob, honor him! Revere him, all you descendants of Israel! For he has not despised or scorned the suffering of the afflicted one; he has not hidden his face from him but has listened to his cry for help. From you comes the theme of my praise in the great assembly; before those who fear you I will fulfill my vows. The poor will eat and be satisfied; those who seek the Lord will praise him— may your hearts live forever! All the ends of the earth will remember and turn to the Lord, and all the families of the nations will bow down before him, for dominion belongs to the Lord and he rules over the nations” (Psalm 22:22-28 NIV).
Again, we read from the prophet Isaiah, “After he has suffered, he will see the light of life and be satisfied; by his knowledge my righteous servant will justify many, and he will bear their iniquities. Therefore I will give him a portion among the great, and he will divide the spoils with the strong, because he poured out his life unto death, and was numbered with the transgressors. For he bore the sin of many, and made intercession for the transgressors”(Isaiah 53:11-12 NIV).
A mighty harvest of souls will spring forth from the earth. And a heavenly anthem will be sung in heaven. “And they sang a new song, saying: “You are worthy to take the scroll and to open its seals, because you were slain, and with your blood you purchased for God persons from every tribe and language and people and nation”(Revelation 5:9 NIV).
Yeshua will present many sons and daughters just like Himself, a first-fruit offering, to the Father. Therefore, we can rejoice with billions around the world declaring, “CHRIST IS RISEN! Christ is Risen, Indeed!” With them, we know that the worst that could ever happen to us happened to Him nearly 2000 years ago! The words of Jesus,“Do not be afraid; I am the First and the Last. I am He who lives, and was dead, and behold, I am alive forevermore. Amen. And I have the keys of Hell and of Death”(Revelation 1:17b-18).
That Good news brings us a blessed hope and to Jesus great joy and satisfaction.
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Jesus, Our Sacrifice
“Abraham took the wood for the burnt offering and placed it on his son, Isaac, and he himself carried the fire and the knife. As the two of them went on together, Isaac spoke up and said to his father Abraham, ‘Father?’ ‘Yes, my son?’ Abraham replied. ‘The fire and wood are here,’ Isaac said, ’but where is the lamb for the burnt offering?’”(Genesis 22:6-7 NIV).
“Where is the sacrifice?” asked Isaac. This is one of the most moving accounts in the entire Bible. Abraham as a friend of God has been an assignment by God to offer up Isaac in whom all the promises of his future destiny lie. This contradicts every thing, humanly speaking, that he has come to believe about God. But as God’s friend he has learned that faith is not always reasonable to the mind. Faith is rewarded as a knowing in the heart. Abraham knew God on a level that was so endearing that it is recorded that, “Abraham reasoned that God could even raise the dead”(Hebrews 11:19b NIV).
As Abraham and Isaac take this fateful journey together, the servants could only go so far. They must remain at the foot of the mountain. This ultimately was between the father and the son (Genesis 22:4-5).
In the story, Isaac willingly was bound and laid on the altar (Genesis 22:9). It is a prophetic picture for us. Isaac voluntarily became the sacrifice, so too, Jesus the beloved Son of God would give His life as a ransom for many.
As he faced the unbelieving, religious crowd of his day, Jesus declared, “Your father Abraham was overjoyed that he would see my day. He saw it and was happy”(John 8:56 CEB).
The Father of creation had a secret. It was hidden in Himself before time. There was a lamb slain before the world existed (See Revelation 13:8). God foreshadowed the promise of an eternal sacrifice by taking the role of the first priest in scripture. He slays an innocent animal, shedding blood and providing a covering for Adam and Eve after they had sinned (See Genesis 3:21).
Isaiah the prophet foretold that this would happen. “Surely he took up our pain and bore our suffering, yet we considered him punished by God, stricken by him, and afflicted. But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed. We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us has turned to our own way; and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all. He was oppressed and afflicted, yet he did not open his mouth; he was led like a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before its shearers is silent, so he did not open his mouth. (Isaiah 53:4-7 NIV)
John the Baptist announces the sacrifice had appeared…the One whom Israel had awaited! “Behold the Lamb of God that takes away the sins of the world”(John 1:29).
What should be our response? Faith and a Festival celebration! By placing our trust in Jesus, the Messiah, we can join with the billions around the world with joy, thanksgiving and celebration!
Jesus gave His life, making atonement, once for all, for our sins. “Rarely will someone die for another, even a friend…But at the right time, while we were still sinners, Christ died for us”(Romans 5:6-8).
We join with the apostle Paul proclaiming, “Christ our Passover lamb has been sacrificed, so let’s keep the feast”!(1 Corinthians 5:7)
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“Adopt the attitude that was in Christ Jesus: Though he was in the form of God, he did not consider being equal with God something to exploit. But he emptied himself by taking the form of a slave and by becoming like human beings. When he found himself in the form of a human, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross” (Philippians 2:5-9 CEB).
In the Novel,” The Prince and The Pauper”, Mark Train tells a wonderful story of a young prince whose father, the king is dying. The young prince wanted to know what his subjects were like beyond the walls of the gated and guarded palace. He wondered, ”How he could get out and get near his subjects without being recognized?” One day he sees a young pauper boy near the gate of the palace. He was about the same height and age as well as having the same color hair and eye color. He came upon a plan to swap places with the pauper. The pauper in turn would assume the role of the young prince.
They exchange their clothing and the adventure (or misadventure) begins! The young prince enjoyed being among the commoners. But as adventures go, he soon faced real and unexpected adversity. But with great fortitude, the prince confronted each challenge without calling upon his princely authority.
Meanwhile…Back at the palace, the pauper was in training to reign as king. He had to learn the royal protocol in order to think and act like a king.
THE SERVANT KING
What a wonderful story! The story reminds me of the Good News story of Jesus Christ, our Servant King. He became what we are, human beings, saving for sin. He assumed the appearance and attitude of a servant. But we must ask, whose servant?
SERVANT OF THE FATHER
The prophet Isaiah foretold of His first coming, “But here is my servant, the one I uphold; my chosen, who brings me delight. I’ve put my spirit upon him; he will bring justice to the nations” (Isaiah 42:1 CEB). Jesus came first and foremost as the “Servant of Jehovah”. He did not come to please himself but rather to serve the will of the Father who sent him. Even his disciples had to learn of Jesus’ true assignment and mission. He received his directions daily from his heavenly Father. Mark records, “Early in the morning, well before sunrise, Jesus rose and went to a deserted place where he could be alone in prayer. Simon and those with him tracked him down. When they found him, they told him, “Everyone’s looking for you!” He replied, “Let’s head in the other direction, to the nearby villages, so that I can preach there too. That’s why I’ve come.” (Mark 1:35-38 CEB).
Jesus walked and worked faithfully as a servant of his (Father) Abba. In doing so, he fixed his gaze toward the Cross. Notice his prayer in the Upper Room. “When Jesus finished saying these things, he looked up to heaven and said, ‘Father, the time has come. Glorify your Son, so that the Son can glorify you. You gave him authority over everyone so that he could give eternal life to everyone you gave him. This is eternal life: to know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you sent. I have glorified you on earth by finishing the work you gave me to do’”(John 17:1-4 CEB).
The all- consuming passion of Jesus was to do and “finish the work” his Father had given him to do on earth. If we are one with Jesus we, too, will have one holy passion that His will be done here on earth.
SERVANT OF MAN
Jesus was also acutely aware of his role as a servant to humanity. “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” (Mark 10:45 NET)One of his last acts before his agony and intense suffering was to take a basin and towel and wash his disciples feet. The lesson Jesus demonstrated, as the Son of God was servanthood. Jesus said, “He who would be great must be your servant”(Matthew 23:11).
Jesus was not only passionate about doing everything for love of the Father but he also was passionately in love with sinners. John the Baptist proclaimed when he saw Jesus, “Behold! The Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world!”(John 1:29). Jesus revealed Father’s love for us by dying our death. As Leonard Ravenhill once commented, “Love on any level demands sacrifice.”
Reflecting and meditating during this season upon Christ’s Passion, we remember that his going to Calvary had a two-fold mission. (1) To satisfy the will of God as His one-unique Son. On the cross, “After Jesus drank he said, “It is finished.” Then he bowed his head and died”(John 19:30 NIRV). (2) To become our substitution on the Cross. Jesus “tasted death for every man”(Hebrews 2:9). When we meditate on the two beams of the Cross, one vertical and the other horizontal, we must remember that Jesus died as the “Suffering Servant-King”. He did it as an act of love for the Father. He also did it out of love for us.
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“Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a real blessing” (Psalm 127:3 GNT).
Our children are under attack like never before. The enemy has gone after the precious with but one aim. He wants to recruit them into his army; teaching them how to hate rather than love; to dishonor authority rather than honor authority. He wants them to walk in ways of rebellion rather than in the ways of God,leading ultimately to their own self-destruction..
Statistics are alarming as to the vicious and cruel acts that are being carried out by children in the public arena. But there is still hope for our children(And parents!). An interesting by-product of various stats and analysis on today’s family reveal that when parents are engaged and present in a child’s life the incidents of wrong or destructive behavior is far less noted. When the parent is not engaging with the child, this is when they move much more easily toward cruel, disrespectful and anti-social behavior.
Parents still are the greatest single influence in a child’s life and the choices they make.
The psalmist reminds us that children are a blessing from God. Therefore, Let them know they are wanted. No matter how a child may have been brought into the world ,we must make it clear to the child that they were wanted. Celebrating the fact that God,the Author of life, sent them into the world is what helps them understand that they are special and unique. The status of what one “has” or “does not have” is not the most important reference point in a child’s life. Their guiding compass apart from parental care is the fact that they know they were wanted by God in the world. As Catherine Booth(wife of Gen. William Booth of the Salvation Army) was overheard speaking to one of her daughters who was in her baby crib, “You were not brought into this world for yourself, God brought you here for others”! A tribute to them as parents, their affirmation influenced everyone of their children to enter a life of extraordinary service to others for God.
Children need to know they are significant,they matter. One of the sure ways this can be known is by the love shown, giving them the undivided attention they need. In a child’s mind, love equals the TIME you spend with them. They recognize love when you are really present to the moments spent with them.
Children are to be trained in the ways of the Lord. This can be a rather intimidating proposition to a parent or guardian. After all, children do not come with an “Instruction Manual”! Nevertheless, we as parents have been given spiritual authority as well as practical wisdom. God has given us instructions in the Bible that help give guidelines and boundaries for the upbringing of children. Here are a few.
“Train a child in the way they should go, and when they are old they will not turn from it “(Proverbs 22:6). The word “train” here in the original is suggestive of the “placing of an arrow in a bowstring” and releasing it in the direction of the target in order for it to hit the mark, the bulls eye.” The psalmist wrote, “Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth”(Psalms 127:4 NKJV).
Every child has a unique gift or talent(s) for which they are to honor God. Helping them discover this is the role of the parent(See Hebrews 11:23-27).
Providing Biblical boundaries and encouragement is necessary if they are to achieve their God- given design. With gratitude the psalmist prayed,”I will never forget your precepts, for by them you have preserved my life”(Psalm 119:93 NIV).
Children need to know that there are boundaries that govern all of life. And when healthy boundaries are violated there are consequences. They need to have a honest and healthy respect for God and others if they will live a God-honored life. Proverbs gives practical insight as How to get along in life with God and others. Building a confident child occurs by loving them unconditionally, teaching them to love themselves responsibly and learning how to respect other human beings equally. Jesus taught,”Honour your father and mother and You shall love your neigbor as thyself”(Matthew 19:19)
Its possible to raise a confident child today. Its not always easy with the many challenges and temptations all around. It’s not too late (even if they are away from home). Pray daily for your children. Trust God’s faithfulness. It is not merely what you SAY but what they SEE that makes the difference.
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“Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on the rock: (Matthew 7:24 NKJV)
In the natural order of things every foundation will be tested. Jesus teaches us that this is true in the spiritual order of things as well. The type of insurance we carry in the day of great trials is important. The hymn writer proclaimed, *My hope is built on nothing less than Jesus’ blood and righteousness…When all around is sinking sand on Christ the solid rock I stand”. “Where am I standing?” is the honest question.
The apostle Paul understood that every house would be tested at the base level. So he prepares the new followers of Christ in Ephesus not to trust in themselves. He reminds them, “And you He made alive, who were dead in trespasses and sins…For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast. For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them. (Ephesians 2:1, 8-10 NKJV)
Two exhortations are drawn from these words: (1) Stop competing with the world. You are dead to the former way of living. “Don’t love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in them. Everything that is in the world—the craving for whatever the body feels, the craving for whatever the eyes see and the arrogant pride in one’s possessions—is not of the Father but is of the world. And the world and its cravings are passing away, but the person who does the will of God remains forever”(1 John 2:15-17 CEB). (2) Stop competing with God. ” We are His Masterpiece”(Ephesians 2:10b NIV). Your performance does not define you. Your identity in Christ does. Paul taught, “You are complete in Him” (Colossians 2:10). You are not to try to compete…for you are complete! This means you cannot play “Can You Top That?” with Jesus. “Very well”, ”If I am complete in Christ Jesus then “How shall I live?” You must recognize, as Paul said, “I’m sure about this: the one who started a good work in you will stay with you to complete the job by the day of Christ Jesus”(Philippians 1:6 CEB). Then you must cooperate as an act of loving obedience. “Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose”(Philippians 2:12, 13 NIV). The key is what Roy Hession coined as “Calvary Road”. In other words, the Way of the Cross is the Key. Again as the apostle Paul testified, “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. And the life that I now live in my body, I live by faith, indeed, by the faithfulness of God’s Son, who loved me and gave himself for me. (Galatians 2:20 CEB)
The Cross is the key to victory over the flesh nature. We are dead to the worldly way and point of view. But we are to experience Christ’ LIFE in our every day living. Crucified, yet alive in Him and His resurrection life and power Alive in me. And when you do so you will stand unmoved because you have built confidently on the solid Rock of Christ.
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“So I sought for a man among them who would make a wall, and stand in the gap before Me on behalf of the land, that I should not destroy it; but I found no one”(Ezekiel 22:30 NKJV).
God looks for those who will partner with Him in the earth. Although the Almighty, Who needs nothing, upholds all things and take counsel from none…He does request the honor of our help. But (In addition to this humbling thought) there is a catch to this knowledge. If we would become co-workers with God we must first see where He is working in order to join Him in HIS work. In other words, we must SEE what God sees in order to participate in His building(rebuilding?) plans. Otherwise, all our “doing”(as wonderful as it maybe) is a “dead work”. It does not have the Life of God and will not redound to His glory.
In Nehemiah Chapter five, Nehemiah while inspiring the people to rebuild the walls of Jerusalem was confronted with another wall…the wall of injustice. The poor of His people were being neglected and being exploited by their civic leaders and by heartless businessmen.
“Now the men and their wives raised a great outcry against their fellow Jews. Some were saying, “We and our sons and daughters are numerous; in order for us to eat and stay alive, we must get grain.” Others were saying, “We are mortgaging our fields, our vineyards and our homes to get grain during the famine.” Still others were saying, “We have had to borrow money to pay the king’s tax on our fields and vineyards. Although we are of the same flesh and blood as our fellow Jews and though our children are as good as theirs, yet we have to subject our sons and daughters to slavery. Some of our daughters have already been enslaved, but we are powerless, because our fields and our vineyards belong to others”(Nehemiah 5:1-5 NIV).
Unfortunately, from history, we learn somethings never change. As found in Nehemiah’s time, it was the case of the powerless being exploited by the powerful. God knows the propensity of the rich and powerful to forget the marginalized and poor. He warned His people not to forget the poor, the widow, the orphan and the stranger(or “alien”) when they entered into their time of plenty”(Consider Leviticus 19:9-18; Deuteronomy 23:10-13; James 1:27). They were to remember that they were once such as these in the land of Egypt. The wise Solomon wrote, “Whoever mistreats the poor insults their Maker, but whoever is kind to the needy honors God”(Proverbs 14:31).
This was perhaps why Job, the riches man of the East could stand up under the trial of suffering and loss. His conscience was clear with no regrets. In his time of affluence he did not neglect to use his godly influence to help those less fortunate(See Job 31:16-21; James 5:10-11). God did not forget what Job had done and in the end, Job was both vindicated and rewarded.
When Nehemiah heard of the abuse of power among the leaders of his people he did not remain passive or neutral. Moved with compassion, he took appropriate action. “When I heard their outcry and these charges, I was very angry. I pondered them in my mind and then accused the nobles and officials. I told them, “You are charging your own people interest!” So I called together a large meeting to deal with them and said: “As far as possible, we have bought back our fellow Jews who were sold to the Gentiles. Now you are selling your own people, only for them to be sold back to us!” They kept quiet, because they could find nothing to say. So I continued, “What you are doing is not right. Shouldn’t you walk in the fear of our God to avoid the reproach of our Gentile enemies? I and my brothers and my men are also lending the people money and grain. But let us stop charging interest! Give back to them immediately their fields, vineyards, olive groves and houses, and also the interest you are charging them—one percent of the money, grain, new wine and olive oil.” “We will give it back,” they said. “And we will not demand anything more from them. We will do as you say.” Then I summoned the priests and made the nobles and officials take an oath to do what they had promised. I also shook out the folds of my robe and said, “In this way may God shake out of their house and possessions anyone who does not keep this promise. So may such a person be shaken out and emptied!” At this the whole assembly said, “Amen,” and praised the Lord. And the people did as they had promised”(Nehemiah 5:6-13 NIV).
Nehemiah’s actions were rewarded by his people. The king’s “cupbearer” became the people’s “governor”. He became a leader worthy of the people’s trust and honor, serving as their governor for twelves years! (See Nehemiah 5:14-18).
Nehemiah’s compassionate leadership style is desperately needed today as our neighborhoods and Nation is facing more and more disparity between the “haves” and the “have nots”. The cry of the poor has come up to the ears of God. He will not long delay in answering them. The prophet Isaiah faces his people regarding the issue in his day, “Wash and make yourselves clean. Take your evil deeds out of my sight; stop doing wrong. Learn to do right; seek justice. Defend the oppressed. Take up the cause of the fatherless; plead the case of the widow. “Come now, let us settle the matter,” says the Lord. “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool. If you are willing and obedient, you will eat the good things of the land; but if you resist and rebel, you will be devoured by the sword.” For the mouth of the Lord has spoken. (Isaiah 1:16-20 NIV)
Fortunately, in his day, Nehemiah was alert to the danger and responded with godly fear and compassion, averting disastrous consequences. He wrote in his prayer journal,”Remember me with favor, my God, for all I have done for these people”(Nehemiah 5:19 NIV).
Those who get involved in God’s work among the needy can be assured of God’s reward. “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers”(Galatians 6:9, 10 NIV).
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“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. (Matthew 7:24 NIV)
VISION & HOPE
The basis for solid neighborhoods is solid homes. The basis for solid homes is solid families. The basis for solid families is solid marriages. The basis for solid marriages is God. With this vision a spiritual community should provide a safe environment, giving hope for healthy families as well as for homes needing “foundation” repair. Coming together with like-minded Individuals of faith can often provide a healthy visionary model. Take Nehemiah for example.
Nehemiah was a man who agonized with a vision for his people to be rebuilt once again into a godly community. Recall that he held the position as the king’s trusted Cupbearer up until the time he received word of the condition of his people, in Jerusalem. ”The walls were broken down and the gates were burnt with fire”(Nehemiah 1).
After much fasting and prayer, Nehemiah was given permission by the king to take some time off to restore the city of His people, Israel.
ASSESSING THE NEED
Once he arrived in the city, he went by night to survey the damage to the walls and gates. So too, repairing marriages can be quite similar. Until assessing the needs or locating the cause of a marriage breakdown…nothing changes. If not tended to, the problems only become worst. These “foundational cracks” may lead to the destruction of the whole marriage, usually because one party (or both) refuses to seek godly counsel and spiritual advice. In times of trouble we should avail ourselves of biblical counsel and insight from those older and wiser than ourselves. Find someone, like Nehemiah, who can help us see what we cannot see or most important…what does God want us to see? Many thoughts, ideas and advice may be somewhat helpful. But the ultimate arbitrator must be “wisdom and counsel that is from above”, which comes from God’s Word (James 3:17).
The unique privilege of a man and woman coming together to make a home is recognizing God’s design and value for marriage. In the recorded account of Genesis Chapter Two, we discover: That the man (Adam) was created from the dirt. And the woman (Eve) was fashioned from Adam’s rib, near his heart and the place of his affections. The LORD God knew that she which came from Adam’s side would stand by him in both the good times and the “bad weather of life”(Brennan Manning). Tough times in married life is not a time to bale out. Rather they are often allowed by God as a time to help you as a couple both to “lean into” and “lean upon” one another, in order to get through (or Work through) the difficult and even frustrating situations. Thus making Adam and “his rib” support stronger…Side by side.
It requires humility to stay in the room and fight “together” against whatever is assaulting the marriage covenant until IT is disarmed and eliminated. Please remember (Men), that (Adam) Man was first taken out of the dirt! But later, we observe that the Man was taken “out of” woman. Thus giving women their dignity and honor, pointing to our redemption (See Galatians 4:4-7). The purpose of this order was to fulfill God’s promise to redeem mankind through woman (Genesis 3:15). This also would be a reminder to men not to “lord their headship” over their wife! After all, if she is described as “The weaker vessel”(1 Peter 3:7). It means (by implication) that makes him, ” The weak vessel”! In humility, we must realize that BOTH are weak…the other is only the “weaker”. This calls for mutual compassion and understanding as marriage partners.
“Therefore shall a man leave father & mother and be joined to his wife: and they two shall become one flesh”(Genesis 2:24). This was a mystery the apostle Paul received regarding Christ and His Bride (Ephesians 5). The grand design of human marriage is a mere reflection of the most anticipated Wedding of history! (Revelation 19:7).
Christ will receive a Bride like unto Himself; holy, undefiled… spotless! She will not be inferior to her Lover. When Adam saw Eve he declared, “This is now bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh”(Genesis 2). He recognized his wife, saying (In the Hebrew language) “Ishshah” meaning “woman”; acknowledging, “She IS what I am”. With that revelation, he had what he had longed for. With “she” who is part of “me”…I will build a solid home. Therefore, he understood, “What God has joined together no man was to pull apart.”
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